Shepastor: "An Invitation to participate in a research project..."

 Dear Shepastor Friends,

As many of you may know, I am a doctoral learner at Capella University in the School of Counseling and Human Services. I am writing to invite you to participate in a research study. This study is a part of my doctoral education program. Participation in this research is voluntary.

The purpose of this study is to answer the research question, “What are the lived experiences of inequity of African American women who have led or are leading a struggling, non-profit organization in America?” In this study, I will seek to learn about the lived experiences of inequity of African American women leading struggling, non-profit organizations in America. Within this context, the term “struggling” refers to organizations that are unstable and dysfunctional. This type of organization is sometimes called a “glass cliff” appointment. The “glass cliff” is a phenomenon describing the reality that women are more likely than men to be appointed to precarious leadership positions in unstable, dysfunctional organizations.

If you are an African American woman nonprofit leader and you are interested in participating in this study, or you know someone who may be, please email me directly at Revcsmith1@cs.com

Thank you!

Pastor Chris

Shepastor: “The Power of Honest, Transparent and Respectful Conversation…”

 ¹² So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets. Matthew 7:12, NIV

 

For the last five years, the Cleveland Foundation has supported a community wide initiative called, “Common Ground.” Common Ground is a platform for community members to come together to discuss ideas, issues, concerns, etc., to make our communities healthier, stronger, better.

On July 27^th, 2021, Restoration Ministries of Greater Cleveland, Inc., and Faith in the City Euclid, Ohio, hosted the conversation, “People, Place and Shared Power: Where Are We On the Journey?” Our facilitator was Dr. Martina Moore, Ph.D., President and CEO of Moore Counseling. The basis of our conversation was the ground breaking book, White Fragility, by Robin DiAngelo.

In preparation for our discussion, the board members of our group came together to read the book and discuss how the concepts, truths, and overall idea of the book impacted us as individuals. Our conversations were open, honest, transparent and raw. Sometimes we laughed, sometimes we cried, and sometimes we became angry. But our conversation remained respectful with truths shared in love. 

Dr. Moore asked that each of us share our experiences during the book discussion with our conversation participants. Our participant audience of 22 individuals was diverse in terms of age, race, ethnicity and religious beliefs. Following opening remarks from the facilitator and the experience sharing from the book study group, everyone was given an opportunity to respond and share.

Individuals transparently shared their thoughts about racism. White participants shared honestly the fears they had been taught to have over the years about African American people and their culture. African American participants shared the realities they face daily related to systems that were designed and continue to persist to oppress, marginalize, penalize and disenfranchise minorities on every level. An Asian participant shared the oppressions, aggressions and disappointments they face as they experience “tokenism” from White people, and rejection from African American people.

A young person responded to a statement regarding fear of the African American culture. He shared that most fear is based in a lack of knowledge about the culture. He also articulately shared how history writers control the narrative, frequently painting those they oppress in a negative light. It is therefore important for people to get to know people for themselves, to read a more expansive repertoire of literature, from the perspective of those from the culture and to understand the systems that create and perpetuate poverty, “inner city” conditions and the dangerous atmosphere that rightly engenders fear.

WOW! What a POWERFUL CONVERSATION!!! Following the sharing of ideas, thoughts and experiences, participants all agreed that more dialogue is needed on these issues. Participants exchanged contact information and made a commitment to spend time getting to know one another. People expressed a desire to learn more and to engage in a follow-up discussion in the Fall. 

To God be the glory, honest, transparent and respectful conversation produced the fruit of meaningful dialogue, new friendships and hope. We began to "see" one another! With God, all things are possible, even in a time of historic divisions in our nation. By faith, we will walk on. By faith, together, we will overcome, someday…

In Faith, Hope and perseverance,

Pastor Chris

www.shepastorchris.org

 Shepastor: "What Kind of Fruit Do You Bear 'On the Regular?' "

9 For this reason, since the day we heard about you, we have not stopped praying for you. We continually ask God to fill you with the knowledge of his will through all the wisdom and understanding that the Spirit gives,^[a] 10 so that you may live a life worthy of the Lord and please him in every way: bearing fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of God, ¹¹ being strengthened with all power according to his glorious might so that you may have great endurance and patience, ¹² and giving joyful thanks to the Father, who has qualified you^[b] to share in the inheritance of his holy people in the kingdom of light. ¹³ For he has rescued us from the dominion of darkness and brought us into the kingdom of the Son he loves, ¹⁴ in whom we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins. Colossians 1: 9-14, NIV

 

In this text Paul is praying some detailed prayers for the people of God, the new believers in Colossae. Specifically, Paul prays:

-        That the Lord would fill them with the knowledge of his will through all the wisdom and understanding given by the Holy Spirit

-        That they would live a life worthy of the Lord, pleasing him in every way 

-        That they would bear fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of the Lord

-        That they would be strengthened by God’s power so that they may have great endurance and patience

It is so easy for us to say that we could never be worthy of all that the Lord has done for us. And that is true. The scripture says that “all of our righteousness is as filthy rags…” There is nothing that we can do to make ourselves clean, right before the Lord. However, we can live a life that is worthy of our Lord. In other words, through Christ, and with the power of the precious Holy Spirit, we can “walk worthy.”

Paul emphasizes that through the power of God’s Holy Spirit, we can live a life that is worthy of our Lord. We cannot do it on our own, but through Christ, we can do all things. Let’s consider his prayers for them:

 

The first two things Paul prays are:

(1) That the Lord would fill them with the knowledge of his will through all the wisdom and understanding given by the Holy Spirit

(2) That they would live a life worthy of the Lord, pleasing him in every way

 When we yield our heart, mind and spirit to receive God’s word, when we pray to understand and apply God’s word to our lives, we will, by faith, trust in the Lord with all of our heart, not leaning to our own understanding, but instead we will acknowledge him and trust him to direct our path. We will learn how to please the Lord….Trust, pray and obey!

 

Today’s focus is upon the third thing that Paul prayed for the believers:

(3) That they would bear fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of the Lord

 

Paul prayed that they would bear fruit in every good work and grow in the knowledge of the Lord. What does it mean to “bear fruit in every good work?” To bear fruit means that there will be evidence of our walk with the Lord. Jesus said, “they will know that we are Christians by our love.” Jesus also said that good trees will not bear bad fruit. We will be known by our fruit.

 

This does not mean that we won’t ever do anything wrong. It does mean, however, that our “record” of fruit, the kind of fruit we bear, should be consistent. What kind of fruit do we bear on the regular? For example, an apple tree cannot bear oranges. A grape vine cannot bear lemons. If we are living a life worthy of our Lord, then our fruit will be consistent with the Spirit of Christ. We are known by our fruit. We win lost souls to Christ through God’s love. It does not matter how many scriptures you know, how many days you fast or how many committees you join if you don’t have love. What kind of fruit do we bear “on the regular?”

 Our fruit is reflected in the way we behave. Do we treat people like we want to be treated? Do we forgive, even when the offender does not apologize? Do we speak the truth in love? Do we have the joy of the Lord? Are we the hands and feet of Jesus, helping others, encouraging others, serving others, supporting others? 

 God’s people have the fruit of the spirit: love, joy, peace, long-suffering, endurance, patience, meekness “against such there is no law.”

In other words, when we live a life filled with the fruit of God’s Holy Spirit, we don’t have to worry about “the law,” for our love fulfills the mandates of the law. Jesus said that we can hang all of the law and the prophets on the two great commandments – the love of God and the love of fellow human beings. May we pray to bear good fruit regularly that reflects the love of Christ!

 A song writer put it like this… 

Day by day

Day by day

Oh Dear Lord

Three things I pray

To see thee more clearly

Love thee more dearly

Follow thee more nearly

Day by day

 

May we join Paul in this prayer not only for ourselves, but for one another, that we will live a life worthy of our Lord, and bear good fruit in the name of Jesus!

In Faith, Hope and Perseverance,

Pastor Chris

www.shepastorchris.org

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 Shepastor: "Lessons From the 

Wilderness..."

Matthew 4: 3-11, NIV The Temptation of Jesus in the Wilderness

 

³ The tempter came to him and said, “If you are the Son of God, tell these stones to become bread.”

⁴ Jesus answered, “It is written: ‘Man shall not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes from the mouth of God.’^[a]”

⁵ Then the devil took him to the holy city and had him stand on the highest point of the temple. ⁶ “If you are the Son of God,” he said, “throw yourself down. For it is written:

“‘He will command his angels concerning you,
    and they will lift you up in their hands,
    so that you will not strike your foot against a stone.’^[b]”

⁷ Jesus answered him, “It is also written: ‘Do not put the Lord your God to the test.’^[c]”

⁸ Again, the devil took him to a very high mountain and showed him all the kingdoms of the world and their splendor. ⁹ “All this I will give you,” he said, “if you will bow down and worship me.”

¹⁰ Jesus said to him, “Away from me, Satan! For it is written: ‘Worship the Lord your God, and serve him only.’^[d]”

¹¹ Then the devil left him, and angels came and attended him.

 

The wilderness…that place where we imagine solitude, the sounds of nature, running brooks, tall trees, cool breeze, and “roughing it.” That’s one image. The wilderness can also refer to a mental, emotional or physical place of isolation, weariness, concerns about the present and future, vulnerability. In this passage of scripture, we find Jesus in both the physical and mental wilderness. After having fasted forty days and nights, and in preparation for his earthly ministry, Jesus is confronted by Satan himself. Humanly speaking, Jesus is at his lowest point…tired, hungry, alone and facing major tasks and responsibilities ahead. The weight, no doubt, is heavy, hard and harrowing! But Jesus went through this process to teach us how to overcome the enemy’s tactics, and stand victorious through the wilderness. 

 Jesus’ victory over temptation teaches us how to resist Satan and reign victorious as we experience the wilderness. As we read verses 3-11, we should not look simply at “bread, suicide or worshipping the devil,” but rather, we should see these as representations of categories for life. The writer in 1^st John puts it like this, “For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world” (1 John 2:16, KJV).

 When the enemy came to Jesus, tempting him to turn the stones into bread, he was appealing to Jesus’ human sensation of hunger. To understand this more fully, consider what happens to a person when they fast for extended periods of time. “With no carbohydrates coming in, the body creates its own glucose using mainly fat. Eventually, the body runs out of these energy sources as well. Fasting mode then becomes the more serious starvation mode. At this point, a person's metabolism slows down, and their body begins burning muscle tissue for energy” (Medical News Today, online).

 Your muscles begin to weaken. Starvation begins to set in. When a person is in this state, they are extremely vulnerable. This describes physical hunger, but there are many kinds of hunger that can weaken, debilitate, and break down a person. When the devil told Jesus to turn stones into bread, it didn’t sound like such a bad idea. I mean, why not? He was starving, he was weak, he was tired. He had the power to do it. Why not? 

Here’s lesson 1: Just because you can do it, doesn’t mean you should. Jesus was on a mission. He was in preparation mode and needed all of the spiritual strength as a human being that he could garner. Although he was God in the flesh, when Jesus came to earth, he came as a human being, to teach us how to walk, how to live, how to serve, how to forgive, how to have faith, how to love and how to make it through our wilderness experiences. Had Jesus used his super natural gifts, which we don’t have, then he would have lost the influence to show us how to overcome when we are hungry.

 When Jesus faced hunger, he stood upon God’s word… “But he answered and said, it is written, man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceedeth out of the mouth of God.” We all get hungry physically. But we also get hungry in other ways…hunger for love, hunger for physical touch, hunger for affirmation and encouragement, hunger for fulfillment…hunger for relationship…hungry for fellowship, etc. None of these things in and of themselves are wrong. But if they are fulfilled in the wrong way, we will lose our authority to witness, to be an example, to show others a more excellent way. We can ruin not only our testimony, but our life’s work, our life mission, our life as we know it if we seek to fulfill hunger in unhealthy and immoral ways.

 Just because you can go where ever you want to go, doesn’t mean that you should. Just because you can attract or get involved with a particular person, doesn’t mean that you should. Just because you can enter into a particular business venture, doesn’t mean that you should. Pray, weigh the consequences, ask yourself is it really worth it? Think about who will be impacted by the decision that you are about to make to satisfy some passing hunger. Understand that once you yield to the temptation that the devil dangles before you, he leaves you to deal with the fall out, stands back to the side and laughs.

 Lesson #2: Don’t throw yourself down unnecessarily. The devil next tells Jesus to jump off of a cliff, suggesting that if he does, the Father would send angels to come and rescue him. Listen again to how Jesus responds…

⁷ Jesus answered him, “It is also written: ‘Do not put the Lord your God to the test.’^[c]”

The devil loves to take scripture out of context. The devil quoted Psalm 91:11-12 out of context…

¹¹ For he shall give his angels charge over thee, to keep thee in all thy ways.

¹² They shall bear thee up in their hands, lest thou dash thy foot against a stone.

 

Within context of this passage, these verses refer to accidents or harm coming to a godly person unaware of a danger. This DOES NOT suggest that God’s people can take on foolish dares, deliberately put themselves in unnecessary harm, handle snakes, drink poison, jump in front of cars as a stunt and expect “angels to lift you up.” This is a trick, a trap and involves foolish pride. Sometimes people will knowingly get themselves involved in foolish, ill advised, even sinful situations and then say, “the Lord will protect me.”

 The Lord may have mercy and keep you from death, but that is not guaranteed. Don’t fall for the devil’s trick. Jesus said, “do not put the Lord your God to the test.” In other words, don’t do foolish, stupid, ill advised, immoral things and then EXPECT that God will protect you. “Be not deceived, God is not mocked. Whatsoever a man soeth, that shall he also reap.”

 We all make mistakes. We all make ill-advised choices from time to time. But understand that when such things happen, if we are spared, it’s because of God’s mercy, not because God is obligated to spare us. When we choose to step out from under the arc of God’s safety, God’s Word, God’s guidance, we open ourselves up to unnecessary pain, sometimes life-long anguish and scars. Don’t put God to the test…don’t do whatever you want and expect that God will rescue you from the consequences.

 The final trick and trap Satan offers Jesus is to “give him all of the kingdoms of the world, if he would fall down and worship him.” Lesson #3: “Don’t fall for the ‘Okidoke! Worship God alone.’” Listen to how Jesus responds…

⁸ Again, the devil took him to a very high mountain and showed him all the kingdoms of the world and their splendor. ⁹ “All this I will give you,” he said, “if you will bow down and worship me.”

¹⁰ Jesus said to him, “Away from me, Satan! For it is written: ‘Worship the Lord your God, and serve him only.’^[d]”

¹¹ Then the devil left him, and angels came and attended him.

 

Of all of the tricks and traps, temptations Satan offers Jesus, I always thought this one was the most ridiculous. Satan knows that Jesus is the Son of God. Satan knows that Jesus is God- the Word made flesh. He knows that Jesus is a part of the God-head and that God owns all – “the earth is the Lord and the fulness thereof, the world and they that dwell therein…” (Psalm 24:1, KJV). What was he up to? Was he appealing to Jesus’ self-worth and pride? Did he think that because Jesus was adorned in human flesh that he would forget who he was, who the Father is?

The devil knew that Jesus was doing this for us. He knew that Jesus, although fully divine, had taken on the feelings, emotions, fears, struggles, hopes, desires, etc., of humanity, so that he could relate to us completely. Therefore, the devil was appealing to his human tendencies. Jesus knew that we would be faced with these same temptations… “the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes and the pride of life.”

Jesus knew that there would be times when we wanted something…we wanted a position, or some power, or some material things, some relationships, some opportunities etc., that appeared to be out of our reach. And while the devil is not like God – the devil IS NOT omniscient. In other words, the devil does not know everything. Only God knows all. But the devil is ancient. In other words, the devil has been around a very long time and he has learned the weaknesses of human beings.  He also remembers what made him fall – the spirit of pride. Proverbs declares that pride goes before the fall.

Satan was appealing to Jesus’ human side, hoping that somehow, the prospect of having fame and fortune on earth would cause him to bow down and worship him. But Jesus summed up the answer for us, for all time – “worship the Lord your God and serve Him only.”  The old saying goes, “if you dance to the music, you’ve got to pay the piper.” My mother always said, “ill-gotten gain will never serve you well.” You cannot accept the trinkets, the material things, the position and the power, the fame and the fortune offered by the devil and think that there is no price to pay.

Satan has NOTHING to offer you except destruction, death and hell. No matter how good it looks, no matter how sweet it sounds, no matter how much of an “opportunity” it appears to be, it is an illusion, a trick, a trap, a fleeting moment of pleasure that turns bitter in your mouth, sour in your stomach and send you on a trip to the proverbial emergency room with a massive bill! Satan is a loser. You cannot win on his team. Stay with God! Worship and serve the Lord who is worthy of all of our praise! God has all power in His hand. God is the giver and the sustainer of life. God is able to keep you from falling. God is able to lift you up in the presence of your enemies. God will supply all of your needs according to his riches in glory. But most of all, God is the giver and the sustainer of your life, not only here, but in eternity through Jesus Christ.

Don’t fall for the Okiedoke! Learn from Jesus’ examples and lessons from the wilderness. Resist the devil and he will flee from you. Draw nigh to God and he will draw nigh to you. Follow the Lord Jesus and daily, he will teach you how to avoid, resist and beware of the tricks of the devil!

Until next Wednesday,

In Faith, Hope and Perseverance,

Pastor Chris

www.shepastorchris.org

 

 

Shepastor: “The Pain and the Necessity of the Long View…”

All these people earned a good reputation because of their faith, yet none of them received all that God had promised. For God had something better in mind for us, so that they would not reach perfection without us. (Hebrews 11:39-40, NLT)

 In the words of the late Dr. Elton Trueblood, every generation has the bittersweet task of “planting shade trees under which we know full well we shall never sit.”

If individuals are honest, it can be hurtful to realize and accept that some ceilings will not be broken during our lifetime…some bridges still won’t get crossed, some doors still will remain closed and some opportunities still may not happen. We are still blazing trails, as it were. We can, however, take the proverbial mallet in our hands, determine to join together, and beat upon ceilings, keep knocking on doors and keep pressing towards the mark. Harlem Renaissance writer Zora Neale Hurston declared, “Mama exhorted her children at every opportunity to ‘jump at de sun.’ We might not land on the sun, but at least we would get off the ground.” 

Change is not something that happens quickly, easily or without struggle and sacrifice. The people in our text all, in one way or another, through faith fought to bring about change. Whether facing oppressive giants, or fighting to end unjust systems of slavery or fighting to save children, families or nations, by faith, they pressed on.

James Russell Lowell, in the Boston Courier, December 11, 1845 penned these famous words: (only the last stanza…)

Though the cause of evil prosper, yet the truth alone is strong;
Though her portion be the scaffold, and upon the throne be wrong;
Yet that scaffold sways the future, and behind the dim unknown,
Standeth God within the shadow, keeping watch above His own.  

 

The Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. was a young man when he was gunned down. And while he saw several major victories evolve out of the blood splattered Civil Rights movement, seeing all of the fruit of his labor was not to be. He was prophetic when he declared that he had “been to the mountain top and seen the promised land.” He declared, “I may not get there with you, but we as a people will get there!” Dr. King had taken the “long view.”

 The civil rights leaders had to take the long view to fight for freedom. Rabbi Abraham Joshua Hershel had to take the long view in order to march arm and arm with Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., in the 1960’s in Selma, Alabama to be sure that all Americans would have the right to vote.  They had to take the long view in Selma, where half of the city's residents were black but only one percent were registered to vote because the registration board only opened doors for registration two days a month, arrived late and took long lunches (ref. "Eyes on the Prize" documentary).

Dietrich Bonhoeffer had to take the long view to stand up against the atrocities of the Nazi regime as Hitler sought to annihilate the Jewish nation.  Sometimes faith urges you, presses you, convicts you, compels you, empowers you to stand for what is right even against seemingly insurmountable odds. Faith will embolden you, strengthen you, press you, push you to go beyond the boundaries of yourself and with God’s help seek to do something greater that will impact the lives of those yet unborn. It takes the long view…

But in our own, individual lives where we might not be faced with standing up against a Hitler, or facing attack dogs and fire hoses - in our everyday lives, how is God challenging us to act out our faith?  Could God be calling us to think outside of the box?  Could God be calling us to volunteer in an inner-city school to give some broken, poverty stricken, almost hopeless child a hope for the future?  Could God be calling us to write letters to our local representatives regarding unjust laws, demanding that they change their opposing stance? Could God be calling us to stand when others are sitting down, fallen asleep or have left the proverbial room?

 Could God be calling us to help in our little corner of the world?  Sometimes faith presses us to move from our comfort zones into places of discomfort and great possibility. Again, in our own, individual lives, sometimes faith is calling us to move from a place of complacency to becoming an active participant in the blessing and healing process. 

God is calling us to take the long view…to plant seeds of faith, seeds of deliverance, seeds of hope, seeds of investments, seeds of righteous living, seeds of honor…to plant seeds that will help raise up a godly generation, a strong generation, a faith-filled generation. God wants to use us to break some glass ceilings, to push in some doors, to break down some barriers or at least do some serious damage to that which is blocking the way.

 If all we do is sing, “We shall overcome,” link arms, place wreaths on some tombs and silently march in remembrance then we will have failed our predecessors. We must do more than live in a past time paradise. We must do more than sing loud hosannas and read poetry. We must speak truth to power… we must educate and register people to vote. We must stand against unjust laws and systems that crush the lives of children and youth through failed educational systems, “for profit” prison systems, gang riddled, drug infested neighborhoods and over-crowded class rooms with frustrated, overworked and under-paid teachers!

 We may not get everything accomplished, but we must keep “jumin at de sun!” We may not see all that we are hoping to come to pass, but we must do all we can, while we can to lay the ground work for a better day ahead. May we have the courage to take the long view...

 All these people earned a good reputation because of their faith, yet none of them received all that God had promised. For God had something better in mind for us, so that they would not reach perfection without us. (Hebrews 11:39-40, NLT)

 In Faith, Hope and Perseverance,

Pastor Chris

www.shepastorchris.org 

 

 

Shepastor: "An 'Aroma' or an 'Odor???' "

Shepastor: "An 'Aroma' or an 'Odor???' "

But thanks be to God, who always leads us in triumphal procession in Christ and through us spreads everywhere the fragrance of the knowledge of him. For we are to God the aroma of Christ among those who are being saved and those who are perishing. (II Corinthians 2:14-15, NIV)

 

When I was growing up, especially during the holiday season, our mother would get up early and start preparing breakfast and then on to preparing dinner. The aroma of the garlic pork (a Guyanese breakfast dish, especially at Christmas), fresh rye bread, and eggs would fill the house. The unmistakable aroma signaled that it was time to get up, come down to eat and then to open our gifts.

I can also remember the fragrance of my mom’s perfume as she prepared to go out with friends. I remember waiting with excitement to see her walk back through the door…I’d run down the stairs to greet her as she came in. I’d jump up, throw my arms around her neck, kiss her cold cheeks and again, smell the sweet fragrance of her perfume. Conversely, I hated the odor of food that had been too long in the refrigerator, or the scary, horrific stench of the dead mouse caught in the trap behind some area out of sight! Both make my skin crawl to this day!

There is a distinct difference between a “fragrance/aroma” and an “odor.” The terms fragrance and aroma stir up feelings of something desirable, beautiful, delicious, mouth-watering! The term odor conjures feelings of sickness, nastiness, distasteful, foul. Simply put, an odor stinks! No one wants to be told that they have an odor! Most wouldn’t mind being told that they have a beautiful fragrance or that their food has a wonderful aroma!

God’s Word tells us that Christ, through us, “spreads everywhere the fragrance of the knowledge of him. For we are to God the aroma of Christ among those who are being saved and those who are perishing.” In other words, when we spread the good news about Christ, it’s like we are spreading a beautiful fragrance among people, spaces and places that are dwelling in odor filled arenas. Those who do not have a relationship with the Lord, through Jesus Christ are trapped by sin and death.

Death has a very distinct odor. It is sickening, overpowering, horrific. In like manner, sin covers humanity with the stench of spiritual death and separation from the Father. When we share the gospel of Jesus Christ, not only with our words, but with the sweet fragrance of love, compassion, mercy, grace and peace, it encourages those who are “being saved,” in other words, all who are on the journey as well as those who are “perishing…” those who have not made the decision to receive life through Christ.

We don’t want to contribute to the odor! We spread odors by our attitudes, ugly actions, hypocrisy and pharisaic behaviors. We spread odors when we see need and look the other way, see suffering and neglect to offer comfort, see injustice and neglect to speak truth to power. We are not called to spread odor, but the fragrance and sweet aroma of Christ.

What are you spreading today? May we seek the Lord’s guidance and strength daily to spread the sweet fragrance and aroma of Jesus through word, deed and being.

In Faith, Hope and Perseverance,

Pastor Chris

www.shepastorchris.org 

Shepastor: “Forgiveness is a Challenge and a Process…”

 

¹⁹ Surely thou wilt slay the wicked, O God: depart from me therefore, ye bloody men.

²⁰ For they speak against thee wickedly, and thine enemies take thy name in vain.

²¹ Do not I hate them, O Lord, that hate thee? and am not I grieved with those that rise up against thee?

²² I hate them with perfect hatred: I count them mine enemies.

²³ Search me, O God, and know my heart: try me, and know my thoughts:

²⁴ And see if there be any wicked way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting. Psalm 139: 19-24, KJV

We face many challenges in life.  Challenges are inevitable.  In our society we make sport of challenges.  At one time, one of the most popular shows on T.V. was the “Biggest loser.”  This show focuses on weight loss challenges.  The teams compete against each other to see who can lose the most weight over a specific amount of time.  I can tell you that losing physical weight is a challenge!  Take a year to lose fifty and two weeks to gain it back!  It is a challenge to lose physical weight.

But there is another kind of weight that is exceedingly difficult to lose - the weight of an unforgiving heart.  It is a challenge to forgive when you’ve been hurt.  It’s a challenge to forgive when you feel that you’ve been damaged.  It is a challenge to forgive when the perpetrator of your hurt never acknowledges the wrongful acts committed.

It can be a daunting thing to have to forgive.  Yet, as Christians, we know that this is what God’s Word requires of us.  Greater yet, it is what the heart of God desires for us – to be free from the weight of bitterness, brokenness and unforgiveness. 

Some of the challenges of forgiving include:

-        It’s hard to forgive because it hurts.  It aches. 

-        It’s a challenge to forgive because we desire justice – we serve a Just God, we are made in God’s image and something down deep inside of us cries out for justice and judgment against those who have done us wrong.  We want them to pay.  We want them to know that you can’t mess with us and get away with it!  We want somebody to kick their you know what!

-        It’s a challenge to forgive because we don’t want God to have mercy on them – but to bring judgment down upon them.

-        It’s a challenge to forgive because often we are still suffering either physically, emotionally, financially or psychologically because of another’s misdeeds.

-        It’s challenging because very few find the courage to apologize for the wrongs committed

-        And it’s challenging because so many times, it appears that we are struggling while they are prospering.  We have the dilemma of the Psalmist …“why do the wicked prosper?”

Those are a lot of reasons, seemingly good reasons we hold onto.  There is no quick formula that we can rattle off that will cause your pain to evaporate.  Forgiveness is a challenge.  It requires sacrifice.  A sacrifice is something that you give at a cost.  If it was easy, it wouldn’t be a sacrifice.  But forgiveness is a sacrifice.  It’s a sacrifice because it requires that you deny yourself the right to hold onto anger, to seek revenge, to spew out poisonous, venomous words, thoughts and behaviors against the individual(s).  

It is a sacrifice because you have to make the decision to let it go and release it to God and trust Him to make it right.   It’s a sacrifice because you have to trust God that He knows you’ve been hurt, He knows you’ve been wronged, He knows what was done was unfair, unkind, unjust, uncalled for and in some instances inhumane.  But you have to sacrifice all that stuff on the altar of love and forgiveness and trust that God, who doeth all things well is going to heal you, and deliver them.

The thing about perpetrators of wrong that we miss, because our pain blinds us –is that they are dying, they are decomposing, they are hood winked. The devil has sold them a false bill of goods and they think that they are riding high.  The Bible declares, however, that we will reap, what we sow.  When you sow the wind, you will reap the world wind.

In spite of all of that, forgiveness is still a challenge. We want folks to “get it!”  But God’s heart is not like ours.  He knows the heart, mind and soul of not only those who are walking upright, but those whose hearts are hard toward him.  The scripture says that it is not His will that anyone perish…not the abuser, not the oppressor, not the former police officer, Derek Chauvin, not white supremacists, not murderers, adulterers, hate-filled people…not anyone.  The Lord sees what we cannot see.  He sees that they are headed for destruction.  He sees that they are headed for eternal separation from Him.  He sees that satan has totally fooled them.  God never wants us to have to experience what Jesus took for us on the cross.

When Jesus took upon himself all of the sins of the world, for a moments time, He experienced separation from His father – the agony was so great that he cried out, “my God, my God why hast thou forsaken me?”  Separation from Him is so deep, so agonizing, so excruciating, that the Lord does not desire that for anyone. We desire mercy for ourselves, but not for our enemies. But while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. He cried out on the cross, “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do!”

Forgiveness is not only a challenge, but a process. Jesus himself went through a process as he contemplated the agony of the cross… “Father, if it be possible, remove this cup…Father forgive them for they know not what they do…My God, My God, why hast thou forsaken me???”

While some try to “theologize” Jesus’ utterances away, I would argue that Jesus was allowing the experiences of humanity to be recorded so that we would understand a bit more about the journey. It is so easy for the Church… “religious folk” to demand that we forgive as soon as the dagger has struck, as soon as the injustice has occurred, as soon as the pain has sought to bury us. God’s grace and mercy, however, reveals another path in the scriptures.

David in the 139^th Psalm declared, “Do not I hate them that hate thee? I hate them with perfect hatred…” His initial response was hatred. He even justified his hatred by saying that he was just hating these wicked souls because they were disrespectful to God! Deep down in David’s heart, however, he knew that it was not God’s hatred, but his own. David then turned and prayed, “Search me oh God and know my heart, try me and know my thoughts, see if there be any wicked way in me and lead me in the way everlasting.”

David was honest with God about how he felt towards his enemies. He hated them! He was clear on his feelings. But then he prayed and asked God to search him, try him to see if there was any wickedness in him and lead him in the way everlasting. David went through a process…

Jesus desires that we, like Him, make the sacrifice to forgive.  He is calling us to take the challenge to forgive and be grateful when they repent. Forgiveness and gratefulness are what distinguishes us from the rest of the world. Jesus said that they will know we are Christians by our love. Forgiveness is a challenge.  It is not an event. It is a process.  It does not mean that you automatically will forget all of the hurt, all of the pain, all of the stuff that came along with the wrong committed.  But it means that you accept the challenge to begin the journey towards healing.  It means that you accept the challenge to get it all out – tell God and maybe some other trusted human being all of the stuff that is consuming you.  Get it out, look at it, talk about it, dissect it and then ask God to help you release it.

We cannot do it on our own.  It will be a process.  But if we begin the process, we will discover that as we get it out, as we confess our hurt, our anger and our pain, as we pray and ask God to help us go beyond it, we will find increasing the strength to let it go.  You’ll find increasing strength to feel sorry for them.  You’ll find increasing strength to genuinely pray for them and you’ll find increasing strength to trust God for the outcome. We will find the grace, mercy and strength to pray for their salvation and gratefulness when they turn from their wicked ways.

God is not unjust.  God will address wrong doing.  When God forgives, He does not necessarily erase the consequences of our behaviors.  But He will erase the eternal consequences of damnation.  While we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.  His forgiveness of our sins came long before we had a mind to repent and turn.  We love Him because He first loved us.

Ask the Lord to help you to forgive and to be grateful today, be healed, be delivered and be set free.

In Faith, Hope and Perseverance,

Pastor Chris

www.shepastorchris.org